We are a couple that is very much in love. She is a home staying mum and he runs a home based massage and waxing clinic (certified and qualified). We have been swinging for a couple of years and loved what we have done. We are clean and consider ourselves good looking. We enjoy going to the gym and keep ourselves fit. We have a great sex life and looking for a bit of extra fun. The two of us are hair free in the most important places and love our partners to be the same (or at least trimmed).

My Ideal Person Update: 03/13
We have been out of the game for a while and now we want to give it a go again. We know now exactly what rocks our boat and would like to share it with you in case you are the one that can help us.
At the moment we are not looking for couples, as we found out that its pretty hard to satisfy four people, and in most cases the females are bi and mine isn't.
I enjoy watching/hearing my wife having fun more than anything else and thats why we are here. Our preferred encounter is mfm when the focus is on my wife. I might be present in the room or in the next room; its all depend on how things will roll. The bottom line is that I want my wife to enjoy herself just as much or even more than the guy that plays with her.
We are very picky and we know that only a confident but not arrogant man will be able to tackle the task and will be considered. He will need to be able to excite her and make her want to give up any doubts and let go from her inhibitions. She is a very classy woman, not a slut or a sex addict. She wants to enjoy another's man body and sexy mind, thats all.
The guy we are looking for will need to be very clean and have a good body, toned and in shape. She is not into overweight or extremely thin men, sorry. He will have a decent size penis that can stay erect with a condom (a must)and will last more than a couple of minutes getting her attention without blowing his load. He will need to be respectful and knowledgeable on how to pleasure a woman. He should be able to take charge of the sex but not in a demeaning manner; being able to pick up the signs off her whether its right or wrong for her will mean she will want more and thats what you want to achieve.
She is not into pain or humiliation, no slapping nipple twisting or other aggressive acts will be tolerated, and if they will happen you will be shown to the door and goodbye.
We understand that our demands are up there and we are fine with that, we are both high quality people, well educated that have seen the world. We would like our partners to be the same. No liars please, your lie will be found out as soon as we'll lay our eyes on you, and you will be turned down.
Are range is 30-50 only. Must be a non smoker! Married guys are more than welcome. Playing time will need to be during school hours only.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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